Ordinarily, one does not love by these rules.
The lover will praise the one he will choose.
His passion never sees anything blamable.
In the object of love, all that he sees is amiable.
He counts faults as perfections,
and knows better names to attach them.
The pale one, to jasmines, in whiteness is comparable.
The one so dark she scares people, is brown and adorable.
The thin one has a waistline and liberty.
The fat one, in his port, is full of majesty.
One endowed with little appeal, unkept and dirty,
is smartly dressed in the name of neglected beauty
The giantess seems like a goddess to his eyes.
The dwarf, an abbreviation for all the marvels of the skies.
The prideful heart is worthy of a crown.
The bitch has spirit. The dumb bitch is nice to have around.
The chatter-box, he praises for her agreeable mood.
"She guards an honest modesty," he says of the mute.
It is thus that a lover whose ardor is extreme,
loves just as much the faults of the one he esteems.
Moliere,The Misanthrope (II 4, 711)
Nature is a temple, in which the living pillars
Release at times confusing addresses;
Man passes it, traversing wildernesses
Of symbols that watch him, looking familiar.
Like long echoes that from far off inter-confound
Into a dark and profound unity,
Vast like the night and like clarity,
Scents, colors and sounds, to each other respond.
There are scents, fresh as the flesh of infants,
Soft as oboes, green as praries in spring,
And others corrupted, rich, and triumphant,
Having the expanse of infinite things,
Like amber, musk, resin, and incense,
Which sing the transports of spirit and sense.
Baudelaire, Correspondences.
Hermes has been protecting unwitting Priam as they approach the Argive camp to ransom his son's body, which Achilles has been dragging around Patroklos' funeral pyre for days.-
"Oh old man, I, Hermes, a divine god, was sent by my father to protect you, but I must return before coming within range of Achilles' eyes. Thus openly greeting mortals would be shameful for an immortal god. Upon entering, take the son of Peleus' knees, and beg in the names his of father, fair-haired mother, and child to stir his heart."
~Thus speaking Hermes departed to Mt. Olympus, as Priam
jumped to the ground from his horse. Leaving Idios to wait with the horses and
donkeys, the old man headed directly for the barracks where sat Achilles, friend
to the gods, apart from the two others present, the hero Automedos and Alkimos,
offspring of Ares, who lingered after having their fill of eating meat and drinking.
Great Priam snuck close past them to take the knees of Achilles, and kiss the
terrible man-killing hands, that had murdered so many of his sons. When a killer
under the sway of thick mischief escapes to another province, upon his arrival
on a rich man’s doorstep wonder seizes those watching, like Achilles and
the other two men wondered, looking from Priam, divine in form, to one another.
~ In supplication, Priam voiced his request. “Let your father be remembered
godlike Achilles. I am his age, on the painful edge of senility. Where he is,
neighbors all around distress him. No one defends him against harm and death.
However, surely when he hears you are alive, he rejoices in his heart; and all
his days he hopes to look upon his beloved son returned from Troy. Yet I am
utterly doomed because I sired the best sons in broad Troy. They once numbered
fifty, of which I say not one remains! All because the sons of the Achaeans
came. Nineteen of my boys were from the same womb, and great women bore them
all. Each one fell when pitiless Ares loosened their knees. Hector alone kept
watch on our city and ourselves. He was protecting his fatherland when you slew
him, and it is for his sake that I have approached the Achaean ships, intending
to ransom him from you. I carry a boundless treasure. Out of reverence for the
gods! Pity a man reminiscent of your father. I am very pitiful. No man on earth
has suffered this, to accept the hand of his child’s killer to his lips.”
Thus the patriarch spoke, arousing in Achilles the desire to weep.
~ Laying hold of the old man’s hands he gently pushed him away. The old
man thought back on man-killing Hector and sobbed deeply, curled at the feet
of Achilles, while Achilles wept for his father, and then again for Patroklos.
Their groans stirred the barracks throughout, but once Achilles’ lamentation
had been sated, it drained from his diaphragm and limbs. He sprang from his
chair to rouse the old man.
~ Taking pity on his grey head and beard, he spoke winged words to Priam. “Ah
wretched man, your heart endures many evils. How do you dare come to our ships
alone, within sight of the man who slew your many virile sons in battle? Surely
that heart is forged from iron. But come, sit in this chair. Still the sorrow
in your heart, though we are very grieved, for nothing is accomplished by cold
tears. Thus the gods doom wretched mortals to live in grief. They pay no funeral
rights. On God’s floor rest two urns, one produces gifts of an evil nature
and the other blessings. He who from Zeus, delighting in the thunderbolt, receives
gifts from both urns, is at times met with evils, other times blessings. However,
he that is given only gifts of woe, Zeus makes miserable and evil pushes him
across the shining earth, to roam neither valued by gods nor mortals. So, to
Peleus the gods gave bright gifts from the day he was born. Among men he surpassed
all in luck and wealth. He ruled the Myrmidons and, though he was mortal, they
made a goddess his wife. Yet even unto him God hurled woe, because for him,
there has been no generation of princely children, only a single short lived
child. Now as he grows old, I’m not there to take care of him. Instead
I am far from my fatherland here in Troy, visiting woe on you and your children.
And you old man, we have heard that at one time you were lucky. As much as Lesbos
cuts off towards the sea and Phrygia from the north, as well as the boundless
Hellespont, all of this was yours, and you excelled in wealth and sons. Those
who dwell in Heaven have brought this misfortune upon you, the constant battle
and slaughter that surround your city. Be strong. Don’t let your heart
lament unceasingly. You accomplish nothing by grieving for your valiant son.
You won’t bring him back, but you may suffer your next misfortune sooner.”
Iliad, :551